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The Family Lace Collection


My mother told me that when her mother died, she got ‘all the sewing stuff.’ Bits and pieces of the lace collection were given to me by my mother as she tried to thin her possessions. When I was ordained as a Rabbi in 1998, and a group of friends commissioned a khupa (Marriage Canopy) as an ordination gift, I knew that some of my mother’s lace needed to be included. When my sisters and I were clearing out our mother’s apartment in 2000, much of the remaining ‘sewing stuff’ came my way since I was the only one willing to take it. Included were several big bags of lace bits and pieces. There were crocheted pieces, embroidered pieces, saved cuffs: a boggling assortment that I loved to go through. I ooh-ed and awe-d over each pretty piece, but knew nothing about what all of this was, who had made it or how old it was. Some of it was so old that it was falling apart in my hands.
 

Lace from the Family Lace Collection

Lace from the Family Lace Collection

 

Lace from the Family Lace Collection

Lace from the Family Lace Collection


When my younger son married in 2007, I prepared the Ketuba on stationery that I had created with Cate Curtis’ help. I scanned the lace pieces and Cate used Photo-shop to create the stationery.

 

Ketuba on Stationery

Ketuba on Stationery


In 2008 I took the box of lace, etc. to lace expert and teacher Nancy Evans in Washington State. She quickly went through it and told me what I had: mostly early 1900s and some late 1800s machine made pieces. She showed me some samples of how to archive and document the pieces. It was an exciting and inspiring visit. So now I am undertaking a new project: to document the family lace collection.
 

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Bubbe’s Princess 2005
 

I began with the family lace collection and my mother’s fabrics. I found the face for a doll that is machine embroidered, probably by my mother. There is a remnant of a table linen: the worn centre cut off and the discarded long ago. Now the cotton fabric is disintegrating, but the crocheted edging is mostly intact. A lacy cuff: early 1900’s, by my guess. Scraps from a crocheted table cloth: I sniff them to see if they still smell like my grandmother’s house. Suddenly the Princess appears. There is only one source for her: my young granddaughter who at five years old draws pictures of herself as a princess and insists that I sew for her the dresses she designs. There is a continuum here that flows back and forth between the generations.
 

Bubbe`s Princess

Bubbe`s Princess

 

Bubbe’s (Grandma’s) Princess: completed May 31 2005. Dimensions: 18” wide x 28” high. Materials: Laces and cotton on black satin/gabardine. Shown in the exhibit of samplers “When You See This Remember Me” curated by Mary Lou Trinkon.


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